Last week’s blog post – MythBusters Episode 10: Money Can’t Buy Happiness sparked more controversies than Adolf Hitler has in the last 70 years. Well basically, Hitler is dead and here I am following the opposite of his legacy – writing amazing life-changing blog posts with poop jokes that bring people together for an epic intellectual gangbang.
Read: MythBusters Ep.10: Money Can’t Buy Happiness

For the record that entry is officially the most read post in the MythBusters series(current stat count: 2632 views). What’s more, I received a ton of comments, emails, and WhatsApp texts regarding the topic. A big bear hug to everyone who commented. Interestingly, some recurring questions and statements common to most of the feedbacks were:
- If money can buy happiness, why aren’t people always happy even with enough?
- Can we say for a fact the richest people in this world are the happiest?
- Happiness is a state of the mind, so you can have little and be content which means you can be poor and happy.
Brilliant feedback mon amis. Although I aimed to shed light on some of these in the previous post. I was left with a horrible throaty-feeling I didn’t do it enough justice. So here is my not so sober take on your feedbacks. Let’s provide an epic conclusion once and for all.
Jesus Christ made rich friends and dined with the rich(Mat 9:9-13). Although Jesus had poor friends, he used the rich to help the poor.
Dr. E.K.P. kwARKO
TO WHAT EXTENT DOES MONEY IMPACT OUR HAPPINESS?
Let me reiterate this fact: Money isn’t definitely the most important thing in the world. However, I am beyond doubt convinced the impact of money pertaining to achieving happiness in our lives is in gaining of choices. Your whole life is bound to change with that cocaine rush feeling- you begin to see needs and wants you didn’t realize you had. Don’t lie- haven’t your taste buds mutated all of a sudden per an increase in your finances? The luxury of having a larger pool of options and choices is what money brings and this has a huge impact on your happiness.

Strangely I have come to realize, after fulfilling the basic needs per Abraham Maslow’s Theory Of Needs- food, clothing, shelter and warmth, the impact of money on our happiness has a progressively lesser impact. And even this is subjective. Let me explain.
Imagine you’re a business associate on say Ghc 1 million salary. A 3% per cent pay rise isn’t really going to move the happiness dial for you enormously. Yet for someone on Ghc 1,000 per month, to get an additional Ghc 5,000 per month which is 4 times what he usually earns, you would almost certainly agree, that cash would have a bigger impact. Their housing options would change, their ability to support children would be enhanced, they could afford better medical care and spot a hotter girlfriend. Just saying.
In summary, excess money after a certain threshold will have a progressively lesser impact on your “happiness”.
DRC
WHAT THE HELL IS H-A-P-P-Y?

Think about it. How can we really have happiness when we truly don’t really understand what it is? So I went online to dig up some definitions of happiness. These few caught my eye.
Happiness is a feeling, not a thought.
finding joy within: Tsetsewaa(blogger)
Happiness is a state of well-being and contentment.
MERRIAM-WEBSTER DICTIONARY
While these definitions are cool in their own ways, I think I have big problems with them in many subtle ways. Are content people happy? How do they prove their happiness through content to the world? Granted, sometimes back, I was just like you, following in the narrow mindedness of the dictionary’s definition of “Happiness”.
The problem is we basically see Happiness as an emotion. And that is fucked!
DR. C
WHY HAPPINESS AS JUST AN EMOTION DOESN’T REALLY WORK
Many in the world out there see happiness as a feeling. Say the word, and you can convince yourself you are happy. I tried this the last time I failed a major exam in medical school years back and trust me it was disastrous. Honestly, I couldn’t really convince myself I was happy. Fake smiles, reciting “you are a happy child of God Charles” a hundred times per day, yet the more I tried, the more I convinced myself I wasn’t really happy. This is what Mark Manson in his book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck calls The Feedback Loop from Hell. Did you see the remarkable thing I did with the “u” in fuck? I starred an f-bomb first time on my blog. Miraculous! There is still salvation for my sexy mind innit?
Okay, so yes your emotions are fucked. Christ! Take away f-bombs from my mind. Thousands will read this. See, I couldn’t stop typing fu-c-k no matter how much I tried. Why?
The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience
the feedback loop from hell, subtle art of not giving a f*ck by Mark manson
This is a total mind fuck, brethrens! Pursuing happiness(emotion) is like beating your meat during the dry season without lotion. It leaves you sore. Oops, bad joke! Trying so hard to be happy will leave you unhappy. Trying so damn hard to get what you want further reiterates the fact- you don’t have it! And this I have come to realize is what the problem with happiness is. We try so damn hard to be happy- buy the flashiest car, shag a record number of males(let’s assume this was meant for my female readers) and yet we still end up being unhappy.
Truth is your emotions and mine are flawed. And that is what makes us humans. We are irrational at best. We try to be logical, but we are driven by emotional biases. Emotions are just biological signals put in place by our 2.7 pounds grey matter to guide us. If signposts do give wrong directions when turned upside down, how much more your imperfect brain? Pursuing an emotion isn’t really a brilliant idea if you think Happiness is a feeling. Do you remember one thing in your past that brought you so much happiness but doesn’t anymore? Yes, your emotions are flawed. And happiness as an emotion isn’t the right perspective to have.
WHY CONTENT DOESN’T WORK: YOU WEREN’T DESIGNED THAT WAY.
Allow me to shine some light on your DNA code. You probably might unsubscribe from my blog but that’s fine, losing a modified chimpanzee isn’t much of a loss, is it? Millions of years ago before the Internet, Instagram models and Twitter came into being, our ancestors lived the most rugged and dangerous of lives. Every second was dangerous. Wild animals roamed the Earth like a plague waiting to wipe out you and I’s existence from living records. But you see, despite all the looming danger, our wild ancestors had to survive- they had to eat and feed others. They had to overcome all odds to survive and this meant taking a lot of risks. They were one failed hunting session from starvation. Resting on their laurels was bad business, they thought of other’s survival, unlike African politicians.

To them, having enough never seemed like enough- it was risky and dangerous.
THAT ONE THING: LIFE’s BIGGEST LIE
Several millennia down the line, this trait has been ingrained deeply in our gene codes. We just can’t have enough at default. It is why I struggle to understand the lie people tell themselves – I am content. Stop it. Take a deeper look into your life, and you will realize, you aren’t really content. The desire for more is always buried in there. Maybe yours might not be money as is the topic discussed here but could be something else- fame, glory, the sense of being loved, the quest for desire. We don’t change.
THE BRILLIANT REASON WE DON’T EXPERIENCE TRUE HAPPINESS
I am saddened I never realized and wasn’t taught this- problems are inevitable. A lot of the issues many face concerning their happiness is problems! People, like myself, grew up thinking my life should be devoid of problems. Thus, I went a long way to avoid them and this led to a not really good end. Ask the husband who avoids problems with his wife by doing everything she asks- he is the worst of men alive.
Problems are a part of life. It never goes away. It is one of nature’s ways of making us obey one of its fundamental laws- Growth! You were designed to grow in totality(mind, body and soul) and what better way to do this than shit testing? Problems are a constant in life. They evolve from one form to another. Life will test you to the limits! We bargained for this eating a mystery fruit. But we in our own brilliant wisdom think otherwise. We notoriously avoid problems. This means you can have everything in life which includes money yet be unhappy – life will shit test you with problems.
WHAT TRUE HAPPINESS IS AND HOW TO GET IT.
Money in isolation won’t make you happy. As an illustration, we often see successful celebrities who earn huge amounts of money succumb to drug addiction. Some of these prima donnas probably didn’t know fame came with its own problems – 24hours paparazzi and absurd demands of the limelight. Money, in this case, is perhaps the enabler of self-destructive behaviour.
Money can be a means of reaching true happiness- the reason I think money can buy happiness. This brings us to what real happiness is:
Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a manner of travelling.
Margaret Lee Runbeck
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
Dalai Lama
I totally love these definitions of Happiness. Instead of bottling what Happiness is, it gives a deeper dive and thoughtful meaning to what Happiness truly is. And this is where the beauty lies: Happiness is work-in-progress. It isn’t a station or milestone you reach and say hey I made it.
This is the reason the “One Thing Mentality” is flawed. You want something so bad only to get it and ask yourself- “is this what I really wanted?” Then like a fart, your happiness is gone. But taking happiness as a journey where we constantly solve the problems life throws us is true happiness.
Happiness then becomes a double-edged sword. An emotional byproduct that results from constantly solving problems by taking action.
dr. c
This removes the idea of “permanence of happiness” because problems never end. Happiness comes from solving problems. The keyword is “solving”. If you’re avoiding your problems or denying you have them in the first place, you are going to feel miserable. See, I failed spectacularly trying to convince myself to be happy by avoiding the fact that I had failed my exams.
To experience the true form of happiness, we need something to solve. It is the reason being idle is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Happiness is, therefore, a form of action- an activity, and not some touch-feeling that is passively bestowed upon you. How did you feel the last time you did what you love doing best? I sure damn think you were happy right? Right there is the emotional byproduct of taking some form of action.

Look at this beautiful shot! These kids are happy if you will be honest. But look closely and you will realize, these kids are taking some form of action. They probably love playing in streams. It is in doing this, they are experiencing the emotional side of the double-edged sword of happiness.
CAN MONEY TRULY BUY HAPPINESS?

After reading this post, you and I will admit money can be used as a means of solving a lot of problems.
Now, let’s tear apart the last question of “can we say the richest people in this world are the happiest”? Just like I mentioned earlier- not many people understand happiness this way. Many are still stuck with the “Life’s Biggest Lie” and the flawed idea of “permanence of happiness”.
One commenter asked: “Can we say Bill Gates is one of the happiest people on Earth”? Hey man, I could put my left testicle on the line and say I sure as hell can say Bill Gates will qualify as one of the happiest men on Earth. This amazing guy despite all his money is solving incredible problems in Africa with his Malaria vaccine funding. He will save millions of lives on this side of the planet.

Can you say the same for the greedy depressed rich man in your village who only hoards his riches? Maybe I don’t know. Fuck him nonetheless.
THE END
Money can buy happiness however, focusing on using money to gain choices and solving problems is where I believe the potential exists for happiness to flourish.
DR. C
Summarize this into a 10 seconds TED Talk- Money can buy happiness!
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Cheers, DRC
Feature Image: Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash. Shots taken on a trip in 2016 with World Vision to Sierra Leone.
Wheew that was quite a wonderful ride. Now I’m going to learn to solve my problems and be happy rather than try to be happy with my problems unresolved.
Perfect way to sum up the solution to the “happiness dilemma”. You rock Shag! Cheers
Great stuff! Happiness is indeed a byproduct! I’m enlightened chaley..and definitely money is a serious cofactor , no two ways.. this reply is for chemistry peeps😈 .. Thank u bruv..and all the best with the demons 🙏🏾😅
Great hearing from you Dr. P. Truly happiness is a byproduct from solving problems. Lmaoooo @ Chemistry. Good ole days. And thanks a lot remember me in prayers for on this blog my demons hide. Cheeers.
Where is Montgomery?… I would really like his or her (dude, you never know) insight. I truly never thought of happiness as a continuous flow but rather an ultimate goal. It’s quite clear that happiness kind of shares traits with knowledge. You kind of pick them up as you sail through the voyage of life. Bits of it is acquired or felt, at a given time. I am actually at a loss for words. This blog post was truly illuminating. Philosopher Potty-Mouth writer, I think it goes without saying that this post was intriguing. Cheers mate.
Hahaha. Montgomery definitely would get to read this. Great insight you shared here. Thanks for the amazing feedback. Goes to say a lot- you one of my best readers and commentors. Cheers mate.
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. That’s the real talk
PrimaTopia! So glad hearing from you again . Take action = Happiness. Cheers and looking forward to hearing from you.
“To experience the true form of happiness, we need something to solve.”
-Dr. C
This is one of the truest statements I’ve read in my entire life!!💥
Thank you Dr. C!
Hi Windy. Great hearing from you. Yes, solving our problems will definitely bring us happiness. When lonely, go out and make friends. When depressed about your bodyweight, hit the gym and shed some fat off. Action drives happiness. Always a pleasure hearing from you. Cheers.
So True we’ve got to realised problems are inevitable parts of life.Thankfully enough, I realised this earlier and corporate well with issues of life..I’m usually happy no matter what I go through.. I cry my heart out for a moment,then move on..Nothing actually depresses me to steal my happiness.. I always find a way out,life is too short to not be happy… Lol
Great hearing from you, Bridge It! Lessons learnt – “chuck it in the fuck-it bucket and move on”.
Adding that to my arsenal! A pleasure hearing from you. Cheers.
Neatly articulated bro, this statement got me, you trying to convince yourself that you are happy after failing your exams, those things don’t really work in real life.
Great hearing from you! Yes, avoiding problems only leads to misery.
Glad you enjoyed this post. Cheers Nurul.
Kodos DrC. This is a great and mind blowing piece. Indeed there’s beauty in the process
Cheers to more happiness
Great hearing from you Tilly. Glad you made time to read this post. Indeed there’s beauty in the process.
Cheers to an amazing day.
Please Charles! I’m going for my knife , put your balls down…. just kidding..
I totally agree with you on this Charles , those who think money can’t satisfy the feeling of happiness can add their 2 cents to my pennies; Good read Charles keep up the good work❤️
Me calling 911 right now😂😂😂😂😂. Leave my balls alone! Heyaa, always a pleasure hearing from you Mercy.
Surely the passion will be kept ablaze.
Cheers.
Simply Amazing.It has really made my evening. Happiness isnt just a feeling. Cheers @DrC
Hi Gracie. Great hearing from you. Glad you loved this post.
Yes, happiness isn’t just a feeling. It’s action! It’s work in progress.
Cheers to a life full of good problems.
Simple truth!!Kudos dear
Greaat hearing from you! Cheers
Brilliant!!! ✌✌✌… True happiness indeed comes from taking actions. Lesson well learnt!
Finally we did agree on happiness! Always a privilege hearing from you. Cheers.
Mehn! You’ve changed my perspective of happiness for life. It’s funny how we sometimes don’t get happiness in just one complete emotion but having to continually find happiness in the things that we do everyday and that is the true measure of happiness. The activity. I traveled with a couple of friends to this particular location on our quest to “having a good time” after a stressful week at the hospital. Long story short, the destination didn’t satisfy us as the journey did. We had more fun finding the nest of happiness than we actually did on our three days… Read more »
That short story you just shared there paints the story to perfection. I totally adored it.
The beauty lies in the journey!!!!!
Really appreciate dropping this feedback. Given me much more insight. Absolutely adored this. Cheers. And thanks for sharing for the masses.
DrC
Awesome conclusion there bro.. I’ve given this topic a thought ad realised the problem with most people is trying to box happiness into a certain state of feeling whiles in reality happiness has ‘an acceleration of free flow 😂 ‘ What I’m trying to point out is happiness comes along freely though it is also enhanced in a lot of ways like money, good company , things happening around’ you and the like. The moment you make happiness a goal and start ‘Chasing’ it that’s the beginning of your unhappiness because at the end of the day you’ll realise after… Read more »
I loved you reiterated the fact that chasing after happiness as a goal is fucked up in so many ways.
I do agree true Happiness can be brought through solving the problems of others. And this could mean, spending time with people (form of action and you solve loneliness and provision of affection which are common problems in the lives of others).
Really appreciate your feedback. Cheers to an amazing day.
You just keep blowing my mind, keep it up Dr C
What’s the SWAT team’s bomb squad number again? Unhealthy to be blown away twice a month. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Hi Vivian. Amazing hearing from you again.
Surely won’t rest till I get better at this thing called blogging. Cheers.
Ha……chaley u too much ….i reli love dis one ….Da F word de3 relax small …..u doing great 👍
Amazing hearing from you Hack-Boi! Totally blushing right now 😊. Glad you loved this post.
The F-bombs? Sigh. Fighting my demons man. Hopefully the next blog post will have a clean version. I don’t promise.
Cheers.
This definitely in my top 5 picks
Big up Dr C
Great I made it up there. A big privilege Bro. Thanks for reading and dropping feedback. Cheers ✊